Indirect Flirting: For The Shy or Reserved Woman

Well, let's get to it. TAKE NOTE: THIS INFORMATION WILL NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE. This is for women who are old school and like for guys to approach them, but without having to put on a dog and pony show to get attention and risk sending out the wrong message. A man will always notice an attractive lady with little to no effort on her part. Therefore, subtlety is key.

Cross Your Legs
It's a classic move, but it works. If you have a nice pair of legs, show them off. If you have on sexy heels or sandals, show those off, too. You will be surprised to know how many men actually pay attention to what women wear on their feet. Also, if you are feeling playful, you can dangle your sandals a bit...completely up to you.

Wear make-up
There are no sexier body parts than the lips and eyes so make sure they don't go unnoticed. Use a little eyeliner and lip gloss for emphasis and cast your most magnetic gaze in his direction, but....

Do Not Make Eye Contact
As a matter of fact, completely ignore him. It's old news but- men like a challenge. So by doing this, he will become more determined to get you to notice him and will conclude that the only way to do so, is by approaching you. Simple. Even my husband pays more attention to me when I ignore him.

Smile
However, don't over do it. Smile pleasantly but not at him. Smile at anything....a text message you received, a book you are reading, an accompanying friend....whatever; because a pleasant smile is associated with a pleasant person.

QUICK DON'TS
1. Never stick your chest out to emphasize the girls, instead promote self-assurance by displaying good posture.
2. Don't add extra oomph to your walk or sway in your hips, rather just place one foot in front of the other and your natural oomph will show on its own.
3. Never play with your pencil or utensil on your tongue. Need I say why?


Now go get him!